Behind the scenes of the crazy life of a nurse is often a loyal man or woman who goes underrecognized and under appreciated for their continuous efforts of support to keep their nurse partner in the game. Nurses have a pretty bad habit of taking out their work stress on their significant others, at least I do! I've attempted to grow in this area because it can be very destructive and unfair to a relationship. Nurses need a safe place to go to process their frustrations, fears, challenges, and triumphs. We are often attracted to people who provide us comfort in some way, so, unfortunately, the ones we love the most/hold the closest become an all too easy target.
Because nurses are often caregivers in more than one environment like at work and home with children or aging parents, the lines between work and the rest of life can get very blurry. At bare minimum, nurses are often considered a free source of medical advice to their friends and family.
Nurses are fairly well known for their sacrifice. But those that should also be recognized are the loved ones and families behind the scenes equally (if not more) affected by the sacrifice. It's hard on the kids and spouses of nurses who work long days, strange hours, and frequently miss holidays, weekend events, and any other special event that is coordinated around the majority of the world with a "normal" schedule.
I would say that many nurses could benefit from being more regularly appreciated and acknowledged for their efforts. However, the next time you think to thank a nurse...please don't hesitate... But also send a thanks and appreciation to those who agree to putting up with some of the less pleasant aspects of supporting the nurse in their lives!
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